Recently I’ve been dealing with someone who just won’t commit to a decision. At last I said to them, “time to shit or get off the pot.”
Limbo is a dangerous place, a place where energy is expended achieving nothing, a place where you kid yourself that you are making progress because you are ‘making a good decision’, but in fact you a just taking up space.
We delay decisions mainly out of fear; either fear of missing out, or fear of doing the wrong thing.
I believe the best decision is the right one, the second best is the wrong one, and the worst decision is no decision at all, essentially sitting on the ‘pot’ doing nothing.
Mindfulness meditation, when done regularly over a long period of time, helps to create space between stimulus and response.
We wouldn’t give away parts of our properties. We wouldn’t give away our money without a positive reason.